
So today was my
first Parent/ Teacher Conference for
Emma. Her teacher had many positive things to say such as:
Writes well
Follows directions well
Has great fine motor skills
Counts well
Recognizes almost all the letters of the alphabet and the sounds they make
Can cut and color well
Raises her hand before speaking
Speaks well in front of the class
Is a leader and an independent thinker
Is absolutely ready for Kindergarten
I am obviously happy and grateful for all these things,
BUT there was a
BUT. . .
She tends be cliquey and bossy and leaves certain kids out
She can be very moody and stubborn when there's something she doesn't like/ want to do
And she doesn't always have a positive attitude
I don't want my child to become
the mean girl at school, so obviously this concerns me! But I think some of it is normal, right? And she's only 4!! Gee whiz!! I don't think she even knows she's affecting other people the way she does yet. Her teacher said she is a leader but needs to learn to be a leader in a more positive way, but isn't she a little young to even know what that means? For now, we're going to regularly remind her to include everyone at school and be
NICE to
Everyone.
I don't even know where she gets this from-- I swear, I was the reserved one at that age, as was Alan. Maybe since Alan lives in Sacramento half the time because of school, she is lacking that male influence and discipline. Oh heaven help us for the teenage years!! I
refuse to have a
mean girl!!! But I also know that 4 year olds only comprehend so much. . .
P.S. Don't get me wrong-- we LOVE her school and her teachers, I was just a little surprised.